Be open - minded and large - hearted. Let your thoughts be God-centred and value based. Match your deeds with your words. Let not what you do contradict what you say.
Life is not worth living if it is a glitter of lights in public, but a gutter of stench in private.
The sea of humanity is infested with 'crocodiles' who speak about justice but don't abide by it, who preach love but make no effort to reach it, who hear God's word but don't adhere to it, who revere laws but don't fear them, who respet values but don't reflect them. Never be such a dangerous, venomous crodile!
Let what you seek tally with what you speak. Only then will you feel accepted.
Let what you do match what you say. Only then will you feel elated.
Let where you reach correspond with what you preach. Only then will you feel regarded.
NB: It is not where you live that matters. What does matter is how you live. Nor is it what you believe that matters, but how you live your beliefs that matters.